gclapper wrote:Age: 42
GG salary level: 13/02 Electronics Engineer (7+ years DOD)
Current TSP balance: Sad state it is....but life happens!
Number of Years until PLANNED retirement: at least 25
Well life happens in spite of everything we try to plan for, work toward, and hope for. After losing my job about 9-10 years ago and being laid off for a year, I basically had to move my family across the country from PA to TX and start from scratch (literally). I fortunately got into the PALACE ACQUIRE program which got my foot in the door. It is a 3 year program with grade increases every year. Started at GG-7 then ended up GG-12. Then got a new position as a GG13. Through all that we had a huge medical issue with my daughter that will be a life long struggle (she is Type 1 Diabetic) which really hit us hard both emotionally and financially. Plus other medical issues across the family. Weird how things happen in clusters it seems. We however kept our heads up and are doing much better now; at least until my oldest starts college in the Fall of 2018. Not ready for that! But for me it has always been about family and making sure my kids have a roof over their heads, food in their bellies, good education, and all the love we can give them. If I can manage those things then I am doing great. So when all seems dark in gloomy I just say to my self "Keep moving forward".
Also, you are never ever going to find true happiness and fulfillment if you are always comparing yourself to other people. It doesn't work and will be a never ending struggle because there is always going to be someone out there that has more than you. Be happy with what you have and most importantly, love and cherish every moment with the ones you love!! True human happiness does not come from things or wealth but from the human interactions that we seem to be pushing aside in our society.
GCLAPPER- wow...I was truly touched by your comments and honesty and felt compelled to reply to you in absolute agreement and applaud your sincerity in true appreciation of wealth, love and happiness. So often we forget the real value of having Gods gift of life. I have two small children (baby girl is 6 and my little man is 9) and tell you that I thank God every day for those two miracles. My wife and I had trouble having kids and were incredibly lucky to have been blessed with two beautiful kids after years and years of trying.
You have the right attitude and mindset and regardless of your portfolio, my portfolio or the person with the largest portfolio, you my brother are one of the wealthiest alive and never forget that!
Thanks for sharing