It depends on what you are paying for and how much you are paying. If you are paying more than around 1.3 to 1.5% total on your portfolio management, you are probably losing a lot to fees.
What is you portfolio mix? 60/40? and then compared to an inexpensive ETF portfolio of the same balance?
If you are paying high fees for an actively managed portfolio then per morningstar.com and SPIVA Research:
In general, actively managed funds have failed to survive and beat their average passive peer, especially over longer time horizons. Only 26% of all active funds topped the average of their passive rivals over the 10-year period ended December 2021
Only 16% outperformed last hear. So you basically have closer to at least an 83% change that they will underperform a passive strategy all the time.
An inexpensive balanced portfolio around 0.08% to 0.25% in fees, buy and hold, according to academic research, from Investopedia:
The reality is buy-and-hold still works, even for those who held passive portfolios in the Great Recession. There is statistical proof that a buy-and-hold strategy is a good long-term bet, and the data for this hold up going back for at least as long as investors have had mutual funds.
Supported by smarter and richer people than me:
Warren Buffett, Jack Bogle, John Templeton, Peter Lynch, Larry Swedroe, and Buffett's mentor Benjamin Graham. Throw in Fama and French and at least one noble prize winner Harry Markowitz on "Modern portfolio theory".
So pay less, get mediocre consistent returns with a few above average returns, less losses when the market is down and you will do better than most active investors... according to the smart people, the academics.
Paul Merriman has lots of data on his website showing multiple buy and hold portfolios beating the S&P 500.
*Maybe you need to fire your Wealth Management company and find a Fee only Fiduciary company Like Vestory or IFA or any other legitimate fee only fiduciary. One that's not trying to sell you insurance products and discloses all their conflicts of interest.
Best of Luck!